Ubwenge bushobora gufasha mu buzima butandukanye, ariko iyo bigeze ku rukundo no mu mubano w’abakundana, rimwe na rimwe bushobora kugorana. Dore impamvu zitangwa n’abahanga mu by’imitekerereze :
Batekereza cyane ku kintu cyose
Aho kuryoherwa n’ibihe basangiye n’abo bari kumwe, bakunda gusesengura amagambo, ijwi cyangwa imyitwarire y’uwo bakundana. Ibi bishobora kubatera umunaniro wo mu mutwe, gushidikanya cyangwa amakimbirane atari ngombwa.
Bagira ikibazo cyo kwifungura mu marangamutima
Abantu benshi b’abanyabwenge bakunda kubaho mu bitekerezo byabo. Gusa gusangiza abandi amarangamutima cyangwa kwerekana intege nke birabagora, ndetse rimwe na rimwe bakumva biteye impungenge.
Baba biteze byinshi
Bakunda gushaka ihuriro ryimbitse, ibiganiro bifite umumaro n’ubwenge bwo kumva amarangamutima. Iyo batabibonye, bashobora kwigunga cyangwa kumva batanyuzwe.
Bakeneye umwanya wo gutekereza
Bakenera umwanya wo kuba bonyine kugira ngo bashyire Ibitekerezo hamwe cyangwa basesengure ibintu. Iyo uwo bakundana atabyumva, ashobora kumva asebye cyangwa atitaweho.
Batinya gusobanurwa nabiAbantu b’abanyabwenge bakunze gutekereza mu buryo burimo ibintu byinshi. Iyo uwo bakundana atabikurikira cyangwa agasoma ibintu nabi, bashobora kumva bonyine kandi batumviswe n’abo babana.
Bafata vuba impinduka ntoya ku myitwarire cyangwa ku marangamutima. Nubwo ibi bifite akamaro, bishobora kubateza impungenge cyangwa kubahindura abantu bakeka ibitari byo.
Batinya gusobanurwa nabi
Abantu b’abanyabwenge bakunze gutekereza mu buryo burimo ibintu byinshi. Iyo uwo bakundana atabikurikira cyangwa agasoma ibintu nabi, bashobora kumva bonyine kandi batumviswe n’abo babana.
Ibi ntibivuga ko biba ari ikibazo gihoraho. Abanyabwenge benshi bagira urukundo rwiza kandi rwuzuye ibyishimo. Icy’ingenzi ni ukumva uko biri, kuganira neza no gushaka umuntu ubaha uburyo batekerezamo. Ubwenge bwo kumva amarangamutima burakenewe kimwe n’ubwenge busanzwe.
Abanyabwenge bakunda byimbitse, ariko ubwenge bwabo bushobora kubavangira. Bakeneye abakunzi babumva, babaha umwanya, bakavuga ukuri kandi bagasangira ibiganiro bifite ireme.