Mu gihe benshi bamenyereye ko honeymoon ari urugendo rwihariye rw’abashakanye bashya rugamije kongera kubahuza no kubaha umwanya wihariye w’urukundo, kuri ubu hari abagiye batungurana bashyira hanze inkuru zigaragaza ko hari abahitamo kujyana ababyeyi babo b’inkwakuzi, harimo ba sekuru na ba nyirakuru, muri urwo rugendo rw’agatangaza.
Ibi byavuzwe cyane ku mbuga nkoranyambaga nyuma y’uko umugore umwe yanditse kuri Reddit ko umugabo we yahisemo gufata nyirakuru akamujyana muri honeymoon yabo. Ubutumwa bwe bwatunguye benshi ariko ntibyagarukiye aho kuko hari abandi benshi bagize icyo bavuga, bamwe bemeza ko na bo babyemera ndetse bamwe barabikoze cyangwa bazi abigeze kubikora.
Ababikora bavuga ko impamvu nyamukuru ari urukundo bafitiye ababyeyi babo bakuze, bashaka kubaha umwanya wo gutembera no kubona ibyiza bidasanzwe batigeze babona mu buzima bwabo. Hari n’abandi bavuga ko mu muco wabo, umuryango ugira agaciro gakomeye cyane ku buryo n’urugendo rw’abashakanye rutabura guhuza abandi bagize umuryango, cyane cyane abakuze.
Ku rundi ruhande ariko, hari abantu batabibona kimwe. Bamwe bavuga ko ari ikintu kidasanzwe kandi gishobora gutuma urugendo rw’urukundo rutagera ku ntego yarwo yo guhuza byihariye umugabo n’umugore. Abandi barabishyigikira bavuga ko byose bishingira ku bwumvikane hagati y’abashakanye ndetse n’uko urukundo rwabo rwubatswe ku kinyabupfura no kubaha umuryango.
Iyi ngingo yatumye abantu batandukanye bagaragaza uko babibona, bamwe bagaragaza ko biteguye kubikora mu gihe abandi bavuga ko batajya bemera ko honeymoon yakwitabirwa n’abandi. Icyakora, iyi ngingo igaragaza uko imyumvire igenda ihinduka mu gihe isi igenda itera imbere, kandi ikerekana uburyo umuryango ugifite agaciro gakomeye mu mico myinshi ku isi.